Everyone has those days where there is something going on in their family, school, at work or anywhere else which can be both depressing and stressful.
For the past week now, I have been volunteering at a camp, and trust me that is quite stressful as it is. Even after the hard day's work, I come home and I hear taunts from my parents, whining from my sister, and well all in all negative things I don't want to be near.
There are other issues I am facing right now, which I don't want to mention, but really sometimes loved-ones can be total piss offs.
I am sure that after being busy the entire day, everyone wants to come to a healthy environment in which they see happy faces, and where they can relax in; thus keeping their mind peaceful. On the other hand, I have been coming home to just hear lectures from my dad, him going on and on about how "I am not responsible", when he doesn't realise that I need some time for myself as well.
During times like these, everyone needs a breather and their own space. I was eating dinner today and my dad started to talk about our upcoming trip and how I need to be "responsible" and get up on time. He still doesn't realise that for the past 4 days, I have been waking up at 6 am. I was already upset due to the lack of encouragement from him so I asked him to stop talking. Then he said that I am capable of "doing nothing." That just made me more mad so I left my dinner and went to my room.
After giving this whole scenario a thought, I have a word of advice to anyone who has, or is going through similar events. When you need your space, GO TO YOUR SPACE. When you are yelling, screaming, arguing and fighting, you are making the situation bad to worse. You know you are tired, upset, and down; therefore go to a place and make it noticeable to the other individual that you want to be alone. This will solve a lot of problems.
I know that for a long time I have been getting lectures from my dad about relationships, friends, responsibility and such; however truly he is suggesting things for my well-being. Yes he shouldn't provoke me all the time though, because it can get pretty annoying.
I have decided to keep my distance from my family for a little while, until I and they cool down. I think it works towards the betterment for all of us.
For the past week now, I have been volunteering at a camp, and trust me that is quite stressful as it is. Even after the hard day's work, I come home and I hear taunts from my parents, whining from my sister, and well all in all negative things I don't want to be near.
There are other issues I am facing right now, which I don't want to mention, but really sometimes loved-ones can be total piss offs.
I am sure that after being busy the entire day, everyone wants to come to a healthy environment in which they see happy faces, and where they can relax in; thus keeping their mind peaceful. On the other hand, I have been coming home to just hear lectures from my dad, him going on and on about how "I am not responsible", when he doesn't realise that I need some time for myself as well.
During times like these, everyone needs a breather and their own space. I was eating dinner today and my dad started to talk about our upcoming trip and how I need to be "responsible" and get up on time. He still doesn't realise that for the past 4 days, I have been waking up at 6 am. I was already upset due to the lack of encouragement from him so I asked him to stop talking. Then he said that I am capable of "doing nothing." That just made me more mad so I left my dinner and went to my room.
After giving this whole scenario a thought, I have a word of advice to anyone who has, or is going through similar events. When you need your space, GO TO YOUR SPACE. When you are yelling, screaming, arguing and fighting, you are making the situation bad to worse. You know you are tired, upset, and down; therefore go to a place and make it noticeable to the other individual that you want to be alone. This will solve a lot of problems.
I know that for a long time I have been getting lectures from my dad about relationships, friends, responsibility and such; however truly he is suggesting things for my well-being. Yes he shouldn't provoke me all the time though, because it can get pretty annoying.
I have decided to keep my distance from my family for a little while, until I and they cool down. I think it works towards the betterment for all of us.
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