Alright,
So I am sure that everyone has a certain individual in their lives who just doesn't seem to get it. Whether it is their colleague, friend, family member, or even their own pet, there is always someone who just doesn't know when to "cut it out."
I have a person in my life, a guy to be exact who well was a friend but now I don't know what relationship to have with him. I am not going to name him, but this guy has crossed the limits of stalking, copying, and well even apologising. When school started was when I met him and I thought he was nice until things started to change. In class he would continuously compete with me and ask for my answers. He took credit for groups we started and even tried to tell people that I apparently liked him.
It was when I started dating my boyfriend that the lightbulb in his head shone brightly. He increased the amount of annoying acts he did, and when I blocked him from many social networks, he proceeded to stalk me on various websites making up fake accounts to see what was going on in my life.
Even after all that, I decided to forgive him and help him out but then, this guy really crossed the lines by copying an assignment I had to do for school. I was upset and decided to not talk to him.
Today he messaged me and started apologising. When I told him I needed some time and space, he got impatient and continued to annoy me until I had to tell him that I had to go. He again started complaining about how I am always judging him, when really all I wanted was my own space and time to think; thus I had to tell him to just STOP.
I really don't understand why people don't leave others alone when they want to be. Maybe alot of conflicts that emerge from wreckless arguements are mainly caused because of space invasion.
I have always been a person for who saying "no" is a big deal. This guy was someone I had helped for months, and due to that I was taken advantage of. When I said no to him today, all I got was a bunch of spazz.
So really I still don't get the whole means of apologising for mistakes which are going to be repeated.
So I am sure that everyone has a certain individual in their lives who just doesn't seem to get it. Whether it is their colleague, friend, family member, or even their own pet, there is always someone who just doesn't know when to "cut it out."
I have a person in my life, a guy to be exact who well was a friend but now I don't know what relationship to have with him. I am not going to name him, but this guy has crossed the limits of stalking, copying, and well even apologising. When school started was when I met him and I thought he was nice until things started to change. In class he would continuously compete with me and ask for my answers. He took credit for groups we started and even tried to tell people that I apparently liked him.
It was when I started dating my boyfriend that the lightbulb in his head shone brightly. He increased the amount of annoying acts he did, and when I blocked him from many social networks, he proceeded to stalk me on various websites making up fake accounts to see what was going on in my life.
Even after all that, I decided to forgive him and help him out but then, this guy really crossed the lines by copying an assignment I had to do for school. I was upset and decided to not talk to him.
Today he messaged me and started apologising. When I told him I needed some time and space, he got impatient and continued to annoy me until I had to tell him that I had to go. He again started complaining about how I am always judging him, when really all I wanted was my own space and time to think; thus I had to tell him to just STOP.
I really don't understand why people don't leave others alone when they want to be. Maybe alot of conflicts that emerge from wreckless arguements are mainly caused because of space invasion.
I have always been a person for who saying "no" is a big deal. This guy was someone I had helped for months, and due to that I was taken advantage of. When I said no to him today, all I got was a bunch of spazz.
So really I still don't get the whole means of apologising for mistakes which are going to be repeated.
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